MySpace is here to stay.
Or did you just read “MySpace is the Devil!”, instead?
I’m not here to vilify or defend MySpace, or any other current technology. And I’m not really singling out MySpace in particular, but hey, those are the breaks when you’re the cool kid on the block.
Since it’s at the forefront of the media though, we’re all giving it thought these days. Teens with plummeting grades; the ever prevalent danger of kids being vulnerable to predators,-one can’t escape the media blitz on this subject. A vigilant parent must be attentive, it’s true.
But there’s another aspect I’ve been pondering. Stemming from my own recent personal struggle with redefining myself once I became a mother, I’ve begun to wonder about my own bedrock of perception and how it affects my reaction to new technology as it influences my child. Is it time to reassess my own perceptions before I come to conclusions about this stuff?
It’s a somewhat daunting idea that today’s landscape of social interaction is not only vastly different than what I grew up with, it’s also so completely intertwined with technology that it’s becoming a single entity unto itself. An entity which, realistically, is being instilled as a basic building block into our children’s development.
In other words, in my 2 year-old’s future mind, his idea of life without social networking, via his tablet PC, and his cell, will be no different than his idea of the Middle ages. Actually, they may end up side by side in his fifth grade History info download, in that chapter titled “The NeoDark Ages”.
Considering these differences, can I effectively use the social ideology built during my own childhood to adeptly parent? Or do I need to work on adopting a whole new model for myself, so that I can succeed in my lofty goal of teaching him the social ethics and mores necessary to advance the consciousness of humanity, thus making our world a better place?
The closest thing to MySpace that I had growing up was a yearbook. A yearbook… in all, it’s published once a year, sprinklings of color pages, passed around, and signed by friends-galore. Can you imagine if we had had a yearbook that came out everyday, played our favorite music, had updated pictures AND video AND was in heavy daily rotation among friends in the comments forum? Our grades may have plummeted too.
Cell phones? Only the lucky among us even had a phone in our rooms. Text messaging? Yeah, we all passed notes in class, living on the edge of danger if they were intercepted and read out loud.
This whole idea of social networking, technology, and how it pertains to our kids, truly is a new frontier of abundant applications. Considering all the socio-academic potential sends my brain into overdrive.
Visions of my son’s future experience in school morph into what amounts to an 80’s sci-fi movie. I see his educational environment involving a host of supplemental academia including virtual classrooms based on something like a souped-up MySpace model. A place where his teachers and peers collaborate in original user-created content, exchange research data via podcast, create their own specialized wikis, and collude on projects with their local and international student colleagues.
I imagine that with his portable PC and his cell phone in his backpack, he will have access to oodles of information, anytime, anywhere. While I’m transferring his lunch money and allowance to his cell for him to digital-spend, his social academics will be analogous to Montessori on steroids. Learn it, experience it, live it… all on the spot and in previously unconventional learning spaces. As our society moves toward a fully integrated digital lifestyle, where computers, phones, and televisions interface in complete sync, the capabilities are mind-blowing. Ideas on how to leverage these new tools to benefit kids should be at the forefront of all our minds.
I get butterflies.
With this promise of a new world of social academia, that lofty goal of mine (you know, the whole advance of the consciousness of humanity thing) actually seems somewhat less far-fetched.
It may all be starting with MySpace, but it has the yet unrealized capacity to lead to a generation of children who have much more of a sense of themselves as scholars, as actual creative contributors to their own education. Because it will eventually be global (if not almost so now), this new fangled social networking stuff will connect cultures in ways we have not yet begun to dream up. Kids will be culturally literate, diversity and inclusion will flourish. Could MySpace (and it’s descendants) bring us closer to, dare I even breathe it, World Peace?
I don’t know, but I do know I’ve answered my first question on whether or not I need to adopt a new model of thinking in order to help guide my son to his fullest potential.
Unequivocally…yes.
[tags]parents, kids, myspace, world peace, technology, global village[/tags]
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5 responses so far ↓
mcewen // Apr 1, 2007 at 6:43 am
It’s always a trade off as the new edges in and nudges out the old. Luckily, there are still some basic underlying rules beneath the numerous overlays of modern social interaction.
For my children, it great, as it will disguise many of their deficits until they have a chance to form relationships. But of course, it’s those same weaknesses that leaves them vulnerable to exploitation.
It is so very different from the caveman and his stone tablet - he may be out to make friends, but he can just as easily flatten you with his message, literally.
Cheers
carrie // Apr 1, 2007 at 11:41 am
if the social nastiness that takes place on-line is any indication… world peace is a lofty goal to lasso into this probable future you envision.
a very big unfortunate side effect of all of this stuff is the narcissistic element involved. people seem to be losing their ability for empathy due to lack of actual physical presence in many of their interactions.
Erica // Apr 2, 2007 at 9:29 am
What an inspiring outlook you have, Misty. It will take this type of attitude to make our world a better place for future generations. As technology grows, we all need to look for ways to utilize it in the best possible way. An effort to utilize MySpace to increase (or create) world peace is a brilliant concept, and one that can actually be implemented. Instead of focusing on the negative (Carrie), let’s start to look for ways to IMPROVE our world for both ourselves and our children. Technology is here to stay. It can, as you pointed out, Misty, be a great tool. We can be viewed as the generation that made a positive influence, or as the generation that sat back and complained about the negative aspects of our ever-growing opportunities to reach people electronically across the globe.
P.S. Carrie, a positive outlook can make a HUGE difference in your actions. Consider it for future generations.
Tracy // Apr 2, 2007 at 9:34 am
I totally disagree with Carrie’s comments above. The amount of “social nastiness” pails in comparison to the amount of good that can and is used on the both the internet and MySpace. The creators of MySpace have ingeniously placed tools in place to prevent filth on this communication site. They did, however, create a wonderful opportunity for communication across our United States. In my view, this site teaches diversity in a way that has been non-existent before.
I think Misty has the right attitude and am in hopes that she spreads this sense of hope and positive outlook to many. We CAN make a difference and it needs to happen immediately.
Stu Mark // Apr 2, 2007 at 10:44 am
To Carrie, “lofty goals” are how things change. It’s fine to have incremental steps as part of a plan, but the plan must aim towards a specific goal, and if you want to make big changes, like “let’s not use weapons to solve our global differences,” then “World Peace” is a necessarily lofty goal.
I happen to agree that MySpace and similar technology (like this blog) will lead us to a more even-keeled perspective on each other, which will lead to World Peace. Keep your eyes on the prize.
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